Who does not like to be appreciated? Human beings thrive on it, and even the tiniest of acknowledgements put wide smiles on out faces. When you are working day in and day out on your relationship, every once in a while it pays to let your partner know he’s appreciated, rather than assuming he already knows it. Here’s why.

It makes him happy

People enjoy doing things for others, and in a relationship, partners are no different. When your partner does something or thinks about the smallest detail for you, of course he is happy that he eased your work. This happiness will only multiply if you let him know how much it means to you. Just drop him a text on it, and see him grin away as he reads it.

He will reciprocate

When your partner realises that you thank him for every small aspect and always acknowledge his help, he will start appreciating similar things that you do for him. It will lead to a healthier and more communicative bond.

He will know his opinion matters

Factoring in his suggestions, asking him for ideas because you trust him, and valuing his inputs will provide him with the impetus to be more supportive. He knows his thoughts matter to you and he will share them in an uninhibited manner.

It will make his day

It’s not just about being grateful and showing it. It is also about looking at how he reacts to your gratitude. Leave him a note, send him a text, call him and surprise him in the middle of the day with these thank yous, and just see how his mood brightens up.